Saturday, October 3, 2015

Red Flag- Is distrust tearing your marriage apart



RED FLAG: Is distrust tearing your marriage apart

Author: Titania Hudson

Format: Kindle Edition

Is jealousy killing the romance in the marriage? Are the insecurities 


and fears of a jealousy spouse driving you insane, what with the 


feelings of frustration and anxiety you're subject to, whenever your


 spouse puts you through multiple tests to ascertain if you've actually


 crossed the boundaries of fidelity and commitment. 


Don't lose hope and succumb to temptation, simply because you are 


surrounded by plentiful admirers, and you are trying to find ways to 


escape from your marriage problems! 


With this detailed love guide, you can run a mental check on the trust issues troubling you and your spouse. 


. What are the root causes of distrust and how they can place your marriage under duress? 


. Explain the concept of jealousy and how it can destroy a relationship through its adverse 


effects 


. Ways to tell if you actually married a spouse who's prone to fits of jealousy 


. Top ten secrets men and women hide from their own spouses 


. 20 effective tips to help you to nurture the growth of trust between married couples 



My Review


Red Flag is a non-fiction book on relationships. As the title suggest, the author warns us about the dangers that we might encounter, if we ignore the signs of jealousy and mistrust in relations. Citing the statistics of increasing divorces, author reinforces the fact that a successful marriage needs a lot of conscious effort. The book is divided into six chapters. The introductory first chapter explains the signs of jealousy and mistrust, or simply stating, the red flag.The symptoms, as it might be termed, make us feeling that every marriage is just the same. One way or other we can relate to the  marital life of either ourselves or someone we know  about. Author has perfectly used experience of working as a dating counselor in citing the point by point account of troublesome relations.


The second chapter tells how to cope up with the signs. It explains the view point of the jealous partner as well as the victim.  The third and forth chapters explains the ten secrets men and women hide from their respective partners.The fifth chapter can be called the show stopper. It describe the 20 tips for a successful marriage.A marriage is an agreement where in both parties agree to make amendments on their personal preferences. East or west, relationships are the same.


 The books will leave 90% of the readers wondering how the author came to know about their relationship because she has explained the subtle nuances of all types of  relations. The twenty effective tips are quite effective if practiced with an open heart.


The book might create magic in your life if you  read it and practice the tips with an open and receptive mind. 


Book is small with 66  pages which makes us feel like it finished before we started but the vision it permeates is far more than the 66 pages.


Positives


 The book is a close knit one with out any loose ends. It covers all major points. Author pin points every point without unnecessary dragging explanations.


Negatives


The chapter four, explaining the ten secrets that women withhold, some points of which, seem irrelevant. 



Overall the book is worth the time and money because all we live for is to have a healthy beutiful happy life 


Rating : 3.5.0

which would not be possible without a good relationship.


Rating


3.5/5


The kindle version is available at Amazon





                                   Reviewed for the Author


Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book as a complimentary copy from the Author in exchange for a honest review. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own.


About the author


Titania Hudson is a veteran dating counsellor residing in Los Angeles with her husband and three children. Now, a self-published author, she aspires to develop a series of dating books to help others cruise along their dating journeys. 


With a specialized degree in Psychology and years of experience under her belt, she is familiar with the crises in dating and adept at highlighting the troubling issues that can crop up within the dating and marriage mart. Nothing pleases her more than having the chance to publish her relationship guides as a form of giving back to society, and she gains much satisfaction from knowing that her readers are faring well in their love pursuits.


While working as a dating counselor in her earlier days, she came across a varied mix of couples, who upheld different values, beliefs and aspirations in life. Some couples were vexed over their seemingly irreconcilable differences, but they were determined to make their relationship work; others had it easier with their other half, except that they wanted to be mentally prepared to face any trials that may surface in the course of their courtship and/or marriage. 


Seeing couples split up was definitely something she hated to see while doing her job, and she felt that couples needed to have a clear understanding of what they want in a partner and not force themselves to accept one another 'blindly' in spite of the apparent faults and differences present in both individuals. That belief led her to start thinking about writing a series of dating books to encourage all couples to adopt a practical yet healthy perspective of what love actually means to them.


Till to-date, she has published a series of dating books under her name. They are none other than: How To Make A Guy Believe You're The One For Him, Get Him To Propose In 80 Days, Go Getter Guy Secrets To Successful Dates and Red Flag: Is Distrust Tearing Your Marriage Apart?